updates

1. preview pics of the wedding at the Bridezilla blog
2. travel updates at Rambling Roads
3. stuffing our faces with the amazing food in Parilla-land *grin*

New Lace! Yippee!!! :)

24 days to our wedding

i'm ill (again).
the gown's not ready - lace didn't arrive from France!
the guest list is out of control.
the apartment's not ready.

and i have a ton of work to do. i need a holiday!!!

on a happier note, i think we're going to have a really fun honeymoon! :) we've booked ourselves into this hotel in San Telmo - the heart of tango district in Buenos Aires. It's housed in a historic mansion with it's own tango saloon and we get free tango classes everyday we're there. Brandishing the "honeymoon" card definitely has its perks. hee...

We've also scored ourselves a reservation at Per Se, Thomas Keller's (of French Laundry fame) outfit in NYC. World No. 8, here we come! *slurp*

Mini!! This one's for you...

Lychee and Peking Roast Duck flava! ;p

Far and away...

Our regular weekend time together got cut short this week cos i had to fly up to HK for some meetings over the next few days. Even though I'd chosen to fly the latest possible flight out, it still felt like we didn't have enough time together, and I was getting increasingly depressed and mopey as the day wore on.

The comfort food I ordered for room service helped a little and hearing XJ's reasssuring voice over the phone made the distance seem much less, but I still can't seem to get through this blue mist. I know, this sounds so wussy... it's only for a coupla days, and I'm even taking the last flight out on Tuesday so I won't miss out on the public holiday, we've survived worst - weeks on end 10,000 miles apart, months away in London and all... but I miss you!!!

Sigh.. maybe a hot shower and a long soak in the tub will make me feel better...

Lazing in the jacuzzi pool at the rainshower trellis

Je ne veux pas travailler!!!

Ate a worm and feeling ill. Sniff.     

Wedding Website

Our wedding website is (mostly) up and running, in preparation for the invitations which are supposed to be distributed next week. Check it out here!

Wedding Frenzy

It's a little scary how time flies - we only have 47 days to go before the Big Day - and there's so much left undone. It doesn't help that we have to deal with the apartment and 12-hour work days.

Majorly freaked out when the invitation cards came back in the WRONG colour. But they've agreed to do a reprint, so i'm keeping my fingers crossed the cards turn out right this Thursday. I don't have the time to do a third run. I'm still wondering how on earth green could turn out grey. Nevermind. Bygones.

We've also just collected the keys to our apartment last weekend. It's all very exciting, but stressful at the same time, cos we have to do it up to a live-able state before September, and that requires time and money - very much in scarcity at the moment! I suppose at worst we just can't have visitors over for a long while. Either that, or you'll have to bring your own stool! haha.

Work's been sucky and I may have to make a trip to HK next week. Ordinarily, I wouldn't be complaining - good food, all expenses paid, free air miles! But I really can't afford the time away, what with all the preparations.

Sigh. This really is a boring and blue post. I'm just not in the mood. Maybe tomorrow.

I'm out of here.

Sneak Peek

view from the living room

rooms at the back look out to town

balcony looks into bathtub?!

rainshower trellis - we can pretend we're on a spa holiday! :)

Shenn's Barney Sunday

Took the little tyke out for the day to see Barney & Friends "live" at Plaza Singapura. He's a real cutie!! 'cept when he takes 2 hours to finish lunch...

I also learnt that Barney's green friend's called Babybop and the yellow 'un is BJ. "I love you... you love me... we are one big family..." *urgh* but the big smiles, exuberant giggles and baby "bear" hugs made my day. :)

Take me home?....

One year ago, he asked and she said yes...

One year later, he remembers the date! :)

Mock-up of my wedding flowers, minus the hydrangeas. Love that Shellen's creation almost replicates the alencon lace on my gown - big, luscious blooms speckled with delicate blossoms for a textured look and the eucalyptus leaves were an interesting touch. Smells lovely too!

The Faces of Super-Formaggio

Unidentified cheese at Wine Garage - some say it tastes like giam hur (salted fish), others say 皮蛋 (preserved century egg)... This must be what durian is like to angmos!

Wedding Bells

Our dear friend registered his marriage today at a lovely, intimate ceremony at Windows East, Four Seasons. It looked like a page right out of Martha Stewart's - tall floral centrepieces, gold-rimmed bone china, sterling silver teasets, crisp white linen and homemade cupcakes topped with white, baby pink and frosty yellow icing. Sweet!

Wannabe Tai-tai

What's a girl to do when her man is away?... Pamper herself! I've lined up a host of body-blissful treats for today. Part of my "I'm a bride - indulge me" campaign.

So off I go now for my body scrub, massage, facial, mani, and pedi... Woohoo!

Laterz...

...the sale worth waiting for...

So my nesting instincts went into overdrive today, and mum and I headed down to the Robinson's preview sale.

In just a little over 2 hours, I managed to amass a fortune of bedlinen, feather pillows, down duvets, more bedlinen, bath towels, kitchen towels, and a whole set of crockery. Mighty pleased with meself, I must say.

Best thing about this shopping trip? I didn't have to lug any of it home - they're delivering for free! Can't wait to hug those fluffy pillows and run my hands over the cool sateen sheets when they arrive this Saturday... mmm...

A Weekend of Firsts

Voted for the first time at the 2006 General Elections. My vote is secret. ;p

Disclaimer: This post is "persistently non-political"!!!


Under instructions from my wedding makeup artist, I highlighted my hair for the first time in my life. Serious. Colour therapist almost didn't believe me....

Now I suppose I'm a certified ah lian? Haha...

Sweet Surprise

He's a sneaky one...
Called me to tell me he'd left work and was almost home, but appeared at my door, bearing the cheeriest orange buds. *beam*
(gee.... they even match my sheets... heh)

I feel better already!

On a separate note, it's the end of XJ's first week at the new job,
and I'm really glad he's settling in well.
It's a big change for him but he's taking it all in his stride! *proud*

Ill...

Again.

Sigh... Throat infection seems to back. What a pain. Literally too.

Sitting and waiting to see the doc. Bleah...

35 minutes of pain

I ran my first ever "road race" today - the JP Morgan Chase Corporate Challenge.

It was a dreary day, storming for hours just before the race, letting up for only less than an hour before it started drizzling again at the startline. It was so crowded by the time CY and I reached the venue (just in front of the Esplanade), we only managed to jostle for a place around 80m from the actual start. Nevermind... I was thinking... me = social runner, no need to fight with the Gurkhas (these speed devils run the race in under 20mins! yikes!).. Heh.

Check out the hordes!

It was terribly hot and humid standing amidst 11,000 people. Was glad to go at the sound of the horn. But I found the hardest part of the race finding a clear route to run. It was tricky manouvreing between so many bodies and there were lotsa tall, huge people around me. So intimidating. Got nudged by sweaty bodies too.. yech.. then again, I was just as sweaty and sticky. =X

Anyways, the route took us past the Esplanade, down Republic Avenue, looping around and along the river, then back to the Padang - a total of 5.6km. The first 2 km went by quickly, but from 2 to 4, it was total agony. I slowed to a walk several times <----- so weak of mind!.. very disgusted with meself. sigh... Then I saw the 5km marker and thought.. hey, cannot be so loser lah, better run the last 600m properly! Picked up the pace a little, couldn't wait to get it over and done with, and just managed to slip under the finish line at a pathetic 35:50mins. *phew* The Padang was used as the reception area - free drinks, bananas, giant T-shirts. The field was really muddy from a whole afternoon of rain and all the gook went into my shoes through the air vents on the sides. Very gross. Squelched my way back to the office.

Dirty Shoos... Most of the mud can't be seen cos it all seeped into the shoe through the numerous ventilation slits!!! urgh...

My race tag

It was pretty fun (tho rather masochistic, huh?), and I think I'll do it again next year. :) But right now, I'm tired, my knees hurt a little and my muscles are fatigued and sore.

Need. To. Sleep.

No-Work Friday... Woohoo!!!

Took the day off today, cos it's XJ's last weekend before he starts work again. Yepz, he's moving on to a new job after 2 weeks of bumming around. (Oh, alright... apart from sleeping in till noon and glueing himself to the xbox, he WAS also planning the honeymoon...).

We spent a lazy day just hanging around, not doing much. And it was great to have some alone time. Had a leisurely lunch, curled up in a sofa at Coffee Bean and read for a couple of hours, caught a movie (Eight Below), then met up with my folks for dinner, before heading to Aunty Dawn's place, where we spent hours playing with Shenn.

This little tot has boundless energy! We could barely keep up with him. Barely two minutes after we arrived, Shenn was showing off that he knew his animals - "wabbee" (rabbit), "pik" (pig) and "ah-meh" (camel), ...

... decided he wanted to build a train track ("make twain twack!"),

... and demanded that we play ball with him ("...bat up!...")

He also has an amazing range of vocabulary for an 18-month old. ("beeeetle bug dead - gorgor catch, gone!").

It cracked me up when he got especially excited with his toy train. He'd point and say "up!" and "Vroommmmm..." when the train climbed up and down the inclines, wring his hands and shout "gone!" when the train ran under the table, and this was the funniest: he'd wait eagerly for it on the other side and squealed "ai!" and gave a little wiggle when the train re-emerged on the other side. We did this for a full half hour - little people don't ever seem to get bored looking at a train go round and round.

Shenn's also learning to speak in third-person - "Shenn-shenn drink..."

"shenn-shenn - more cake"

What a cutie... XJ just adores him... heh...

Wedding Update

Finally settled on the design for the EG tonight - it will be a cheongsam-inspired backless number, with some bling-bling details which I am leaving the designer to come up with. Should be interesting to see how it turns out at the first fitting in July. *excited*

My Dream Wedding

XJ and I got married last evening. It was all I’d ever wanted – a small, intimate do in a villa, with close friends and relatives, lovely canapés, amazing wines. Everything was crisp and fresh and white – I was real pleased we managed to create a resort feel, exactly the way we wanted, with our shoestring budget! :)

The ceremony went by in a haze, as if I was hallucinating, the euphoria must have gotten to my head. Ah... to be in love... I vaguely remember Benny, our photographer, somewhere in the background, snapping pictures of happy faces. I remember the warm embraces of my loved ones, the buzz in the air as our guests mingled. I changed into my cocktail/party clothes and was heading back to the reception. I spotted XJ in the far corner, chatting with his friends, looking dashing as always – he’d changed into his comfy white linen shirt and berms, leaning indolently against the wall, a frosted champagne flute raised to his smiling lips. My husband! *beam* Everything was just perfect!

That is, until I saw that the caterers were clearing up the food trays, a thought raced through my head – they’re done so soon? There wasn’t enough food?! The crowd had dissipated somewhat, I think some people had left. I whispered to XJ “I told you we should’ve gotten the dessert buffet! Look, it’s only 7.30pm and people are bored, and we haven’t got enough booze to entertain them!...” XJ: “It’s ok, sweetie, we’ll just zip out now to the patisserie and get some stuff.” Ever the calm, collected, resourceful one. :)

We hurried to the car, and drove off, and that’s when it hit me, how could I not have noticed?! I wailed, “Everything that could go wrong, went wrong!:

1. Daddy didn’t walk me down the aisle, XJ wasn’t waiting at the altar – we strolled in together, no choir, no fanfare
2. We didn’t recite our vows correctly – I don’t remember the “for better or for worse, in sickness and in health”
3. Pastor didn’t even bless our rings!
4. Oh no. We forgot to tell the officiant we wanted a Christian ceremony and not a civil solemnisation! *panic* Do we now go back to church to get our marriage blessed instead?
5. My bouquet was a bundle of five pathetic 10-inch stalks of freesia bound in satin ivory ribbon. I only noticed when I’d stuck them in a glass of water to refresh them.
6. Where were my flowergirls?
7. No shower of confetti. Didn't XW remember to hand out the lacy cones of rose petals to the guests?
8. Benny was giving us all directions to stand in line, taking staid portrait shots. Hey, we paid good money for photojournalism, ok!?!?!? And then he disappears and is nowhere to be found halfway through the reception.
9. Why didn't the jazz band turn up?
10. …
11. …”

… the list goes on. By this time I was sobbing uncontrollably…

I woke up in cold sweat. All I could think of was, “It was a dream. It was a dream, right? Thank God! It really was only a dream wedding!” It was a very bad night. And I’m still shaken. It felt too vivid, too real. I think I'm going mad. :(

Good Friday Weekend

So after a drought of 3 months, we finally get another long weekend. Took the opportunity to arrange for a makeup trial with Kenneth Lee on Friday morning. Yes yes... it's long overdue (wedding is only 4 months away)... It was a fairly quick session and with a few whisks of his brushes it was done. I think i look kinda odd - not very me... XJ decided to do some test shots and I left the makeup on for the rest of the day to see how long it would last. Don't usually wear much makeup and it took a gargantuan effort not to scratch my face, rub my eyes, lick my lips... bleah.

(L-R, top to bottom): Kenneth is done in less than an hour, Checking it out in the mirror - doubtful, so weird... so not-me, hmm..., ok, let's try a smile; XJ guest stars

Trooped down to Arab Street on Saturday cos after all my gushing about my lace wedding gown, Mum was inspired to check out some lace too. It was back breaking, going from one Royal Brothers to the next (there are at least 3 on the same street!), popping in and out of Mahaco, then final stop at Alta Moda - where the guy remembered XJ and I from the last time... He showed us a S$470/m piece of gorgeous double-scalloped alencon lace, and I said I would come back to get it another time after checking with my designer. Of course, I never did... =X

this pale gold chantilly caught mum's eye, as did the pastel floral Emmanuel Ungaro silk satin on the right

she didn't buy 'em though. tease...

In line with our get-healthy-get-some-sun campaign, we decided to go play some beach volleyball at Sentosa with XL, Get & Kay. Excuse to try out my new bimbo bikini too (with cute pink ribbons)... heh! But the blazing hot weather gave way to ominous dark clouds and streaks of lightning by the time we got to the island. We got tired tossing the frisbee between the two of us while waiting for the rest to arrive and indulged - Blue Chips! My fav... :)

Attempted a round of 2-on-2 Ultimate with XL & Get - I was pooped after only 10 minutes with all the non-stop running. The volleyball bit of the evening was slightly better, but it soon started to drizzle and got too dark to see. Perfect reason to call it a day and makan (again!). I confess - succumbed to temptation and had a double scoop of chocolate-chocolate and macademia ice cream. So much for healthy living. Well, at least I think it didn't contain trans fat!?!?!

Busy Bee

It was another activity-filled weekend. No more complaining about weekends going by pointlessly, boringly, and wondering how countless hours just whizz by while you were doing nothing - read: sleeping/vegging.

Friday night, met up with Eddy from ET Music. He owns one of the companies that manages bands for events. We're thinking of either a 3-piece piano/doublebass/drums or 4-piece (add sax) jazz band for our wedding. Also looking at Striiiings - a string quartet - which specialises in classical music and jazz. Then caught up with XL, Kay and BB at WineBar for a couple of drinks.

Saturday was a busy day! Woke up early to 扫墓 at Bishan. Then popped by RI with XJ for him to reminisce abit before rushing to Seletar Hills (?!?) to meet up with Naleeza. She used to be a lawyer, but has since left the profession to bake pretty wedding cakes! She also hosts interviews on CNA, the most recent being that feature on Asian millionaires. Just in one session, she has ingrained in us the dangers of trans-fat. That got XJ and I reading food labels like crazy since. Haha. Incidentally, Today had a write-up on Nestle and how their products have less than 1% trans fatty acids. Here's what it says:

"...Trans fat is formed when liquid vegetable oils go through a chemical process called hydrogenation. In it, hydrogen is used to add density to the oils. Hydrogenated vegetable fats are used by food processors because they allow longer shelf life and give food desirable taste, shape and texture. Evidence suggests that consumption of trans fat raises low-density lipoprotein (LDL) or "bad" cholesterol levels and lowers high-density lipoprotein (HDL) or "good" cholesterol levels, causing the arteries to become clogged and increasing the risk of developing heart disease and stroke..."

*shudder*

Drove home from Seletar Hills to rest a bit before trekking right across the country to Hume Ave for Dons' and Iky's marriage blessing ceremony. Check out the pics:

Ok, sorry, the only shot we got was one with the exit sign.. =X

With Dons, Iky and XJ

Getting cuddly with baby Naomi

Naomi wonders where that big head popped out from. Heh.

Naomi demos her rubber-face

Naomi tries to get me rubber-faced too

Meet our flowergirls: Phoebe and Audrey - Ain't they sweet?

You thought we were done for the day? Not quite! After Dons' and Iky's do, we headed down to XL & Get's place at Robertson for drinks. Gee.. it was really 环岛追追追 for us today.

Sunday was 环岛追追追 round 2! Dragged myself out of bed after only 3-odd hours of sleep to go to church, did speed shopping and bought yummy Royce chocolate in Orchard, then hitting Serene Centre for Teh Tarik ice cream before heading to Choa Chu Kang for lunch at Uncle Ray's newly renovated apartment. *pant pant*

Maybe it's all that running around the whole weekend - but now I'm down with a bad throat infection. Doc gave me 2 days' MC. Felt awful this morning, all woozy and weak from the fever, but slept it all off. Other than the slight discomfort which is kept under control with all the meds, and the fact that I'll be missing out on all my exercise for the next week or so (nearly died doing weights last night!), these couple of days' rest are more than welcome. It's given me the opportunity to catch up on much needed sleep, I got to do some reading (legal docs and floozy magazinees don't count), sorted out some thoughts on wedding preps/admin, and I've updated my blog!

Looking forward to another day of rest and recuperation, and by the time I make it back to work, it's past the mid-week mark. And then it's the weekend again. Yippeee!!

Wedding Stuff

Here are some pics of my various visits to Margaret Brides - my wedding gown designer. She specialises in lace *swoon*. :)

I've decided on a duchesse satin mermaid gown with a chapel train and french alencon lace on the bodice and all around the hem, finished off with a row of satin covered buttons right down the back. Still looking for the perfect piece of lace but finding something I like and within budget is tough. Margaret has reserved a batch of lace as the "minimum" standard, pending new stocks which will arrive from her suppliers in June. If we find nothing more suitable, that's the one we'll use for my gown. Was bowled over by this pure silk duchesse satin I saw at Arab St the other day. It had a gorgeous honey sheen to it and felt heavenly. But it was too much to pay for after the top-ups I'd added to get french alencon on my gown. *sniff*

The day we signed up with her. Margaret's sketching the dress of my dreams, as I look eagarly on.

Artist at work...

Margaret's studio. Love it! Soft, ivory tones,plush carpets, dreamy romantic drapes, little lacey touches - lampshades, cushion covers, table runners...

...and the circular dais on which you model all her lovely creations in front of a large mirror. I feel like royalty! ;p

My "reserve" lace

And how it'll look on the bodice: